Do you and your parents constantly argue? Did you know that arguing leaves you feeling stressed? Of today's generation, you can't count on how many children argue with their parents. I also encounter this within our neighborhood. Arguing is like running on a treadmill. You will expend a lot of energy but you won't go anywhere. But you can avoid arguing with your parents if you try these 4 steps.
1. Think before you respond.
When you feel you're under attack, do not talk of the first thing that comes to your mind. Don't make an impulsive reply. Try to perceive the feeling behind your parent's words. Never respond with sarcasm.
2. Speak respectfully.
Learn on how to speak quietly and slowly. Avoid making unnecessary facial expressions that may give an indication of annoyance. If you feel you're about to lose control, offer a silent prayer to God to maintain your self-control and don't add fuel to the fire.
3. Listen.
If you talk too much, you might say the wrong thing. So make sure that you give your parents the chance to speak . Set aside the things that you are doing and maintain eye contact. Don't interrupt to justify your actions. Just listen. After they talked, you'll have plenty of opportunities to explain your viewpoint.
4.Be willing to apologize.
It is appropriate to say "I'm sorry". If you think you find it hard to do this face-to-face, try to express your feelings with a note.
You can also use the following steps when you argue with your siblings, friends and even with your classmates. Express yourself in a normal conversation. Before the day ends, try to make peace with the person you argued with.
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